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		<title>Comment on Not Every Recluse Suffers From Social Anxiety Disorder by Brent French</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brent French</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2011 17:57:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliant post, helped me with my anxiety Thankyou so much.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliant post, helped me with my anxiety Thankyou so much.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 16:25:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It sounds like it&#039;ll do little good to assure you that you are not alone. In fact nearly everyone suffers from SA to a degree. The only socially confident people in the world are people who haven&#039;t admitted they aren&#039;t - what I&#039;m saying is that all of us focus our lights on ourselves, think that everyone is watching us, that everyone knows when we say,or do  something inappropriate, but the truth is they don&#039;t. They&#039;re all too busy worrying about themselves to put a magnifying lens on you. Only you are doing that.

That said, it seems like you&#039;ve reached a point where you need to seek professional help. Google for mental health counseling in your town or city. There are bound to be places where you can find help for free, or at a reduced cost. Please make the effort to do so. 

There are often therapy groups for SA sufferers. It&#039;s amazing how dramatically the synergy of a group can help you. Please make getting help a priority.

In the meanwhile, remember the words of Bill Murry in that movie &quot;Meatballs&quot;, whenever you find yourself in a social situation in which you feel afraid of embarrassing yourself: &quot;It just doesn&#039;t matter&quot;...and the words of a certain Nazarene capenter&#039;s son: &quot;This too shall pass.&quot;

Really Taurean, it will be alright. Just take positive action.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It sounds like it&#8217;ll do little good to assure you that you are not alone. In fact nearly everyone suffers from SA to a degree. The only socially confident people in the world are people who haven&#8217;t admitted they aren&#8217;t &#8211; what I&#8217;m saying is that all of us focus our lights on ourselves, think that everyone is watching us, that everyone knows when we say,or do  something inappropriate, but the truth is they don&#8217;t. They&#8217;re all too busy worrying about themselves to put a magnifying lens on you. Only you are doing that.</p>
<p>That said, it seems like you&#8217;ve reached a point where you need to seek professional help. Google for mental health counseling in your town or city. There are bound to be places where you can find help for free, or at a reduced cost. Please make the effort to do so. </p>
<p>There are often therapy groups for SA sufferers. It&#8217;s amazing how dramatically the synergy of a group can help you. Please make getting help a priority.</p>
<p>In the meanwhile, remember the words of Bill Murry in that movie &#8220;Meatballs&#8221;, whenever you find yourself in a social situation in which you feel afraid of embarrassing yourself: &#8220;It just doesn&#8217;t matter&#8221;&#8230;and the words of a certain Nazarene capenter&#8217;s son: &#8220;This too shall pass.&#8221;</p>
<p>Really Taurean, it will be alright. Just take positive action.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by TAUREAN SMITH</title>
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		<dc:creator>TAUREAN SMITH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 03:43:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I NEED HELP WITH MY SOCIAL ANXIETY I&#039;M 20 YEARS OLD I DON&#039;T HAVE ANY FRIENDS I&#039;M VERY SELF CONSCIOUS IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS IF I GO OUT I WOULDN&#039;T I WILL STAY IN MY HOME AND WISH I HAVE SOMETHIMG TO DO BUT I CAN&#039;T SO I NEED HELP AND THIS REALLY GOT TO ME WHEN I WAS 19 YEARS OF AGE I STARTED GETTING NERVOUS AROUND PEOPLE IT GOT WORSE WHWN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL I DIDN&#039;T KNOW WHAT WAS WRONG WITH ME I DIDN&#039;T GOING TO SCHOOL I DIDN&#039;T WANT TO GET ME A JOB I JUST DIDN&#039;T WANT TO DO THE THINGS I WANTED TO DO CAUSE I KNOW I WILL EMBARRASS MYSELF BUT I HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY DISORDER</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I NEED HELP WITH MY SOCIAL ANXIETY I&#8217;M 20 YEARS OLD I DON&#8217;T HAVE ANY FRIENDS I&#8217;M VERY SELF CONSCIOUS IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS IF I GO OUT I WOULDN&#8217;T I WILL STAY IN MY HOME AND WISH I HAVE SOMETHIMG TO DO BUT I CAN&#8217;T SO I NEED HELP AND THIS REALLY GOT TO ME WHEN I WAS 19 YEARS OF AGE I STARTED GETTING NERVOUS AROUND PEOPLE IT GOT WORSE WHWN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL I DIDN&#8217;T KNOW WHAT WAS WRONG WITH ME I DIDN&#8217;T GOING TO SCHOOL I DIDN&#8217;T WANT TO GET ME A JOB I JUST DIDN&#8217;T WANT TO DO THE THINGS I WANTED TO DO CAUSE I KNOW I WILL EMBARRASS MYSELF BUT I HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY DISORDER</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not Every Recluse Suffers From Social Anxiety Disorder by irritable bowel syndrome</title>
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		<dc:creator>irritable bowel syndrome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Howdy, just a short note to swing by and say thx for the insights on this page. I ended up on your blog after searching wellness and fitness related stuff on Yahoo... guess I somewhat lost my focus! Nonetheless I shall be back again in the future to look at your posts down the road. See you later</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Howdy, just a short note to swing by and say thx for the insights on this page. I ended up on your blog after searching wellness and fitness related stuff on Yahoo&#8230; guess I somewhat lost my focus! Nonetheless I shall be back again in the future to look at your posts down the road. See you later</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not Every Recluse Suffers From Social Anxiety Disorder by hypnotherapy stress</title>
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		<dc:creator>hypnotherapy stress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 16:36:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>PTSD is not something one can get over in one day or even in one month.  It is a very debilitating disorder and she really needs some sort of therapy.  From what you have included in your post, it seems like she is maybe suffering from severe anxiety.  Unfortunately, if she is not yet ready and willing to accept help, then there is nothing you can do but show her love.  Keep encouraging her to take on hobbies she enjoys, visiting friends and other positive activities.  Try to suggest her to visit other counselors and therapists.  She probably doesn&#039;t trust them because she hasn&#039;t found someone that she can truly connect and open up with.  Good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PTSD is not something one can get over in one day or even in one month.  It is a very debilitating disorder and she really needs some sort of therapy.  From what you have included in your post, it seems like she is maybe suffering from severe anxiety.  Unfortunately, if she is not yet ready and willing to accept help, then there is nothing you can do but show her love.  Keep encouraging her to take on hobbies she enjoys, visiting friends and other positive activities.  Try to suggest her to visit other counselors and therapists.  She probably doesn&#8217;t trust them because she hasn&#8217;t found someone that she can truly connect and open up with.  Good luck!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not Every Recluse Suffers From Social Anxiety Disorder by anxiety management</title>
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		<dc:creator>anxiety management</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2010 06:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like the way you put out things. It would be nice to read more posts from you. Bookmarked.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the way you put out things. It would be nice to read more posts from you. Bookmarked.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not Every Recluse Suffers From Social Anxiety Disorder by Child Diseases</title>
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		<dc:creator>Child Diseases</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 18:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now I have read your article and by the way I found you website on AOL and I think after I read somepost on you website especially this one I have my own comment about what should I tell on the next hang out with my family, maybe next week I will tell my friendsabout this one and get debate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now I have read your article and by the way I found you website on AOL and I think after I read somepost on you website especially this one I have my own comment about what should I tell on the next hang out with my family, maybe next week I will tell my friendsabout this one and get debate.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not Every Recluse Suffers From Social Anxiety Disorder by Garden Canopies</title>
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		<dc:creator>Garden Canopies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 00:12:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great info, a lot of thanks to the writer. The idea is puzzling to me today, but all around, the usefulness and relevance is overwhelming. Really much thanks once again and also all the best .!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great info, a lot of thanks to the writer. The idea is puzzling to me today, but all around, the usefulness and relevance is overwhelming. Really much thanks once again and also all the best .!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not Every Recluse Suffers From Social Anxiety Disorder by Children Diseases</title>
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		<dc:creator>Children Diseases</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Aug 2010 11:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just want commentabout this article, after reading whole of this it make me to have new thinking about one big event, hope I can read more good news again from you so I bookmark your website.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just want commentabout this article, after reading whole of this it make me to have new thinking about one big event, hope I can read more good news again from you so I bookmark your website.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Aug 2010 11:56:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are absolutely a compelling writer. You absolutely know how to write to keep the audience engaged. I hope to see a lot more of your wonderful writing style in the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are absolutely a compelling writer. You absolutely know how to write to keep the audience engaged. I hope to see a lot more of your wonderful writing style in the future.</p>
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